Appalachian Sayings - Beggars Can't Be Choosers

I’m starving!

Here’s some grapes.

I wish I had something really good to eat.

Well, beggars can’t be choosers.

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When I was young it was common for kids and adults to use the phrase beggars can’t be choosers. Are you familiar with the saying?

Tipper

 

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  1. Can’t remember I time that I didn’t know and use that phrase.

    I learned another when our daughter was small and watched the “Alice in Wonderland” series on TV. Somewhere one of the characters says, “If wishes were horses, beggars would ride!”

    I’ve replaced ‘Beggars can’t be choosers’ with ‘If wishes were horses, beggars would ride!’

  2. I’ve heard all the sayings mentioned above. I remember my grandfather always saying “waste no want not”. I wonder how all these sayings apply today since a lot of people feel that they are entitled to things of their choice, even if they don’t work for it.

  3. For some reason this saying makes me feel a little cranky. I must have heard it a thousand times over the years, mostly from sassy brats when I was a kid. It’s really old and probably universal among English speaking people. I was curious enough to look up the origin. It was first recorded in 1562. Also remember “Never look a gift horse in the mouth.” Grace is always in order when receiving a gift.

  4. Tipper, well this is a familiar one, heard this from my Mama all my life growing up and still say it today all the time. Thanks

  5. Yes & for some reason this brought to mind the saying, “If a bullfrog had wings, he wouldn’t bump his butt” & then ” If wishes were horses, beggars would ride”.

  6. I always heard and said, “Beggars can’t be choosey.” I used it often with our daughter who seemed to never be satisfied with what was available for snacks.

  7. That was a common phrase especially when, as children, we wanted something we thought was special for us, but either it wasn’t available or we were being told to be satisfied with what was being offered. Good one!

  8. Indeed, I have heard the expression OFTEN in my childhood days! But somehow I did not associate “beggars” with poor folks in the mountains. I often heard the expression “We may be poor, but we are proud!” i.e. We are NOT BEGGARS!
    But when our dear Mother heard us claiming to be ‘proud’ she would quote a scripture from her Holy Bible about what happens to someone who is proud! So proud was not in our diction.
    HAPPY APRIL FIRST!
    Eva Nell

  9. I’m very familiar with the saying. I try not to say I’m starving, just I’m hungry. I used to be so skinny I was afraid people would think I was actually starving. Now if I said I’m starving they would know better. Every two or three years I have to spend a couple months on Weight Watchers to get back to where I want to be.

  10. I heard that “Beggars can’t be Choosers” and a variant, “Beggars can’t be Choosey” so I learned “Not to Look a Gift Horse in the Mouth.”

  11. Tipper–Momma used it regularly, usually when on of the children wanted something they either didn’t need of which the family couldn’t afford.
    Jim Casada

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